Give a Mac an installer, an app bundle and a menu bar icon it can see

The macOS backends were already here: CoreAudio capture through ffmpeg,
pbcopy and CoreGraphics, Carbon hotkeys, the paths under ~/Library. What
was missing was everything that installs them, so install.sh hands over to
install-mac.sh on Darwin rather than growing a branch per line: the XDG
directories, the .desktop files and the shortcut registry mean nothing
there, and an application is a bundle rather than a path. The bundle
carries a copy of the interpreter, because macOS files the microphone and
Accessibility permissions against the process that asks, and a launcher
running Homebrew's python3 would have asked as python3 and shared the
grant with everything else on that interpreter. It is signed ad-hoc so a
reinstall is the same application rather than two more dialogs, and it
says so plainly when a brew upgrade has moved the tree it needs.
uninstall.sh and update.sh follow it.

The tray icon was invisible: QIcon.fromTheme wants a freedesktop icon
theme and hands back a null icon without one, which in a menu bar is the
whole interface gone. trayicon.py draws the three shapes as template
images, so they follow the menu bar into dark mode, and the bundle's icon
comes off the same glyph rather than a binary in the repository. Linux
keeps its own icons; these are used only where the theme has nothing.

paths.py is the fix that was never about a Mac. config.py imports ggml.py,
so ggml.py could not ask it where the data goes; each worked it out for
itself and only one of them knew about macOS. Settings went to ~/Library
while several gigabytes of models went to ~/.local/share, which is not a
place a Mac user looks and not a place uninstall.sh --purge would have
deleted from.

Ctrl+Space is the input-source switch there and Cmd+Space is Spotlight, so
the default is Ctrl+Option+Space, and hotkey.default_combo is the one
place that difference lives. The first paste asks for Accessibility with
kAXTrustedCheckOptionPrompt, which is what creates the row to switch on;
asking the other way opens a pane Dikte is not listed in. `dikte shortcut
status` asks the running instance, since the combination is held by that
process and by nothing else.

Local speech to text is the one piece a Mac builds by hand. whisper.cpp
publishes no macOS binary and Homebrew's is configured with
WHISPER_BUILD_SERVER=OFF, so it installs whisper-cli and not the server
Dikte talks to; program_path already takes a whisper-server off the PATH
or out of Settings, so the answer is the one a Linux distribution gets,
and the README carries the cmake line. CI grows a macOS job on 3.11 and
3.13, the only place the Carbon and CoreGraphics libraries have to be
there to be opened.

Written and tested on macOS 27.0 arm64. Two things are still unverified on
a Mac: the paste end to end, which waits on the Accessibility toggle, and
a meeting recording, which needs a loopback driver.

tests/test_paste.py

@@ -275,11 +275,16 @@ class FakeCoreGraphics:
         self.flags = []      # (event, flags)
         self.posted = []     # (tap, event)
         self.released = []
+        self.prompted = []   # the options dictionaries asked with
 
     # --- ApplicationServices
     def AXIsProcessTrusted(self):
         return self.trusted
 
+    def AXIsProcessTrustedWithOptions(self, options):
+        self.prompted.append(options)
+        return self.trusted
+
     def CGEventCreateKeyboardEvent(self, source, keycode, down):
         self.made.append((keycode, down))
         if self.makes is not None and len(self.made) > self.makes:
@@ -301,10 +306,16 @@ class MacOS(ClipboardContract, DikteTest):
     platform = "darwin"
     here = paste.MACOS
 
+    # A stand-in for the CFDictionary: the real one is built out of constants
+    # read from the frameworks, which a fake has none of.
+    OPTIONS = 4242
+
     def setUp(self):
         super().setUp()
         self.api = FakeCoreGraphics()
         self.patch_attr(paste, "_macos_api", lambda: (self.api, self.api))
+        self.patch_attr(paste, "_macos_prompt_options",
+                        lambda services, core: self.OPTIONS)
         self.patch_attr(paste.time, "sleep", lambda seconds: None)
         # It opens the settings pane once per run; each test gets its own run.
         self.patch_attr(paste, "_asked_for_permission", False)
@@ -385,6 +396,31 @@ class MacOS(ClipboardContract, DikteTest):
             paste.press("cmd+v")
         self.assertIn("Accessibility", str(caught.exception))
 
+    def test_asking_is_what_puts_dikte_in_the_accessibility_list(self):
+        """Opening the pane is not enough on its own.
+
+        AXIsProcessTrusted only answers the question; an application that has
+        never asked with the prompt is not in the list, so the pane opens on a
+        list Dikte is not in and the only way through is the + button.
+        """
+        self.api.trusted = False
+        with self.assertRaises(paste.PasteError):
+            paste.press("cmd+v")
+        self.assertEqual(self.api.prompted, [self.OPTIONS])
+        # The dictionary is ours to release, and nothing else made an event.
+        self.assertIn(self.OPTIONS, self.api.released)
+
+    def test_it_asks_once_however_many_dictations_fail(self):
+        self.api.trusted = False
+        for _ in range(3):
+            with self.assertRaises(paste.PasteError):
+                paste.press("cmd+v")
+        self.assertEqual(len(self.api.prompted), 1)
+
+    def test_a_trusted_process_is_never_prompted(self):
+        paste.press("cmd+v")
+        self.assertEqual(self.api.prompted, [])
+
     def test_readiness_is_the_permission_rather_than_a_program(self):
         self.assertTrue(paste.paste_ready())
         self.api.trusted = False